As I mentioned earlier. Since I've moved on from JW land, I've tried to become more tolerant of other belief systems. But I also enjoy the freedom that I didn't use to have, to discuss beliefs, even semi-heatedly, with others that don't see things like I do.
All of us former JWs have to go in the best direction that suits us for our lives at this given time. It is my belief, that nobody here on this thread, not even JWs, truly desire to see children killed. I don't think anybody can really even comprehend the idea, as it continues to be explained that it is out of our understanding, even when it is mentioned in the Bible.
How could anybody even imagine such atrocities. And for what, being born in China? The good news is, that Xians like Dan and even JWs are not (hopefully never) part of a movement where they would ever actively particpate in killing non-believers. So Dan, JWs, and other extremist non-action believers will eventually grow old and die without ever seeing judgement day. They'll experience even more cognitive dissonance, perhaps changing belief systems many times over. They can believe that God will kill babies like he did in the bible and be just and loving - but they'll never actually see it, no matter how much they believe it. Eventually they'll get tired of their religious mind games and wander on home to reality.
The JWs have their blood policy which kills children right now. That should be stopped. If a person changes religious beliefs and stops believing it's ok to kill babies by refusing them blood in medical situations - then good for them. Even if they continue to believe that God and Jesus will kill the same babies later in the Big A, they aren't actually participating in the killing so no harm no foul. It's disheartening that a few former JWs cling to fundamentalist beliefs that make no sense and have no backing, but being able to openly talk with them, eat with them, say greetings to them, and be their friends, is stll worthwhile. Welcome to freedom.